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Privacy Guide

Get your information off people-search sites

A step-by-step walkthrough for removing your name, address, and phone number from Whitepages, Spokeo, and five other data brokers — free, and without a subscription.

Data brokers make money by building a profile of you — name, current and past addresses, phone numbers, relatives, even property records — and selling access to it. Most of the information technically comes from public records. The problem isn't any single detail; it's that these sites stitch it all together into one searchable page, which is exactly what makes phishing calls, impersonation scams, and doxxing easier to pull off.

The good news: every major people-search site offers a free opt-out. It's just tedious, because each one has its own process. This guide walks through seven of the biggest — Whitepages, Spokeo, BeenVerified, Intelius (which also clears TruthFinder, InstantCheckmate, USSearch, and PeopleFinder in one pass), FastPeopleSearch, Radaris, and MyLife — so you can knock them out in one sitting.

01

Whitepages

Verification: phone call · Time: ~15 min · Processing: up to 72 hrs

  1. Search your name (add city/state) at whitepages.com and open the listing that's actually you — check age range and relatives before proceeding.
  2. Copy the full profile URL from the address bar.
  3. Go to whitepages.com/privacy/consumer-rights (or the homepage footer link "Do Not Sell My Personal Information") and paste the URL.
  4. Confirm the listing is yours, click Remove Me, and pick a reason from the dropdown.
  5. Enter a phone number you can answer, check the ownership box, and start the verification call. Enter the code it gives you.
  6. Recheck in about 72 hours. If it's still up, contact Whitepages support with your submission date and URL.
02

Spokeo

Verification: email link · Time: ~10 min · Processing: 24–72 hrs

  1. Search your name, phone, or email at spokeo.com and open the matching profile.
  2. Copy the full URL from the address bar.
  3. Go to spokeo.com/optout, paste the URL, enter an email address, and complete the CAPTCHA.
  4. Open the confirmation email and click the verification link — nothing is removed until you do.
  5. Recheck in 24–72 hours. New listings can appear later, so a repeat search every so often is worthwhile.
03

BeenVerified

Verification: email link · Time: ~10 min · Processing: 24–72 hrs

  1. Go to beenverified.com, scroll to the footer, and click "Do Not Sell or Share My Personal Information" — not the regular search bar.
  2. Search your name and state, then compare age, city, and relatives carefully — common names return several near-matches.
  3. Click Proceed to Opt Out on the right listing, enter an email, and complete the CAPTCHA. No account needed.
  4. Open the email and click Verify Opt-Out.
  5. If more than one profile shows up (old address, maiden name), repeat the process for each — removals aren't identity-wide.
  6. Recheck after a few days. If a listing sticks around, email support@beenverified.com or call (888) 579-5910.
04

Intelius & the PeopleConnect network

Verification: email + phone/email code · Time: ~15 min · Processing: 48–72 hrs

  1. Go to intelius.com, scroll to the footer, and click "Exercise My Data Privacy Rights."
  2. Click View Public Data Tools, then Manage My Suppression Rules — this opens the shared PeopleConnect Suppression Center.
  3. Enter an email you control, agree to the terms, and click the verification link sent to your inbox (it expires in 15 minutes).
  4. Enter your date of birth and legal name, then pick your profile from the matching records — check age, cities, and relatives.
  5. Choose a partially-hidden email or phone shown on screen, request a code, and enter it.
  6. Find your record and set its visibility to Suppressed, then save.
  7. Recheck after 48–72 hours. One suppression here also clears TruthFinder, InstantCheckmate, and USSearch — and PeopleFinder, which redirects to Intelius.
One request, four sites cleared. This is the highest-leverage opt-out on the list — do this one even if you skip the rest.
05

FastPeopleSearch

Verification: email link · Time: ~5 min · Processing: ~3 days

  1. Go directly to fastpeoplesearch.com/optout — there's no self-search here, the form locates your record for you.
  2. Enter your name and a real email you check, complete the CAPTCHA, and submit.
  3. Click the link in the email that arrives, which opens the actual removal form.
  4. Fill in the requested details and submit — you'll get an on-screen and email confirmation.
Expect to redo this one. FastPeopleSearch rebuilds from public records frequently — a home sale or address change can bring your listing back within weeks.
06

Radaris

Verification: email link · Time: ~15 min · Processing: 24–48 hrs

  1. Search your name, city, and state at radaris.com and click View Profile on the correct listing.
  2. Copy the full profile URL.
  3. Scroll to the bottom of any Radaris page and click Do Not Sell My Info.
  4. Click through the intro and age-verification pages, then paste your URL along with your name, city, and state.
  5. Click Start Removing, continue through a few more confirmation screens, then enter your email and complete the CAPTCHA.
  6. Click the link in the confirmation email to finalize.
Keep your confirmation email. Radaris has a documented pattern of listings resurfacing or requests getting ignored. Set a reminder to check back in about 90 days.
07

MyLife

Verification: phone call (recommended) · Time: 15–30 min · Processing: 7–15 days

  1. MyLife's web form is unreliable — call 1-888-704-1900 directly. Have your profile URL ready if you can find it on mylife.com first.
  2. Tell the rep you want your free public listing removed. They may pitch a paid subscription — you can decline and the removal still proceeds.
  3. If you'd rather not call, email membersupport@mylife.com with your name, profile URL, and a clear removal request — expect a slower turnaround.
  4. Ignore the "Reputation Score" on your listing — it's a marketing metric, not a background check (the FTC fined MyLife over it in 2020).
  5. MyLife listings tend to reappear on a 6–12 month cycle. Set a calendar reminder rather than checking right away.

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